Higher Parents

A guardianship over- deprive him of the opportunity to be independent. The higher the level fenced off and the elevation of the mother, the lower the level of confidence in his teenage and higher expression of the mercy of public opinion, and a heightened sense of guilt. On the other hand, the higher the level of positive interest to parents of teenagers, the higher the willingness to help others, the more developed his sense of responsibility. The more the mother takes the ratio of the adolescent as a small child, the more he defends his own independence, maturity through intolerance to criticism, to reassess their own capabilities, expression of feelings of superiority over others, excessive insistence, unfriendliness, lack of restraint and temper. Although the emotional instability is also influenced by such factors associated with rapid physical development at this age – the difficulty in functioning heart, lungs, blood supply to the brain. Therefore, for adolescents is characterized by changes in blood pressure, fatigue, mood swings and hormonal storm consequence of which is imbalance.

The ratio of boy to himself as an adult is called the 'sense of adulthood. " This desire is that all treated him not as a small, but as an adult. A sense of adulthood and is manifested in the pursuit of independence, the desire to protect certain aspects of his life from interfering with their parents. The teenager, thinking myself a unique person, at the same time tends outwardly no different from their peers. A typical feature of adolescents is conformity – imitation. The desire to merge with the group, does not stand out, meet security needs. Sometimes teenagers mimic the behavior of a significant person, usually the father.

In case of insufficient criticality teenager, his lack of independence in the judgments of role model can have a negative impact. If parents filed a bad example with regard to alcohol, the adolescent becomes a norm of behavior frequent consumption of alcoholic beverages. Moreover, this example of parents making the treatment of alcoholism is a complex process because it is deeply imprinted in the minds of such behavior as the norm. In the most important thing children do inherit the values of parents. 'Spheres of Influence' parents and peers delineated. Usually transmitted from parents to fundamental aspects of social life. With peers the same advice about 'immediate' issues. However, relations with peers for adolescents are more significant than in adults because it is social isolation from their teenage family genealogy. Adolescence is a period of stormy inner feelings and emotional difficulties. Teenagers are sometimes shy and attach great importance to shortcomings of their appearance and behavior, which leads to a reluctance to meet with some people. Sometimes anxiety paralyzes the social life of a teenager so that he rejects most forms of group activity. According to a survey conducted among adolescents, every 12th to the head came the idea of suicide. Behavioral abnormalities characteristic of almost all adolescents. Characteristics of this age – the sensitivity, mood swings, fear of ridicule, reduced self-esteem. The majority of children over time, this runs by itself, some also need the help of a psychologist. There are trainings on personal growth that will help teenagers to develop healthy self-esteem and its relationship with the outside world. Of course, it is very important remains the preservation of contact between teens and parents, which is achieved by striving for mutual understanding and respect for the feelings and views of each other.

Thursday, November 24th, 2011 News

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