Family Psychology

Higher Parents

A guardianship over- deprive him of the opportunity to be independent. The higher the level fenced off and the elevation of the mother, the lower the level of confidence in his teenage and higher expression of the mercy of public opinion, and a heightened sense of guilt. On the other hand, the higher the level of positive interest to parents of teenagers, the higher the willingness to help others, the more developed his sense of responsibility. The more the mother takes the ratio of the adolescent as a small child, the more he defends his own independence, maturity through intolerance to criticism, to reassess their own capabilities, expression of feelings of superiority over others, excessive insistence, unfriendliness, lack of restraint and temper. Although the emotional instability is also influenced by such factors associated with rapid physical development at this age – the difficulty in functioning heart, lungs, blood supply to the brain. Therefore, for adolescents is characterized by changes in blood pressure, fatigue, mood swings and hormonal storm consequence of which is imbalance.

The ratio of boy to himself as an adult is called the 'sense of adulthood. " This desire is that all treated him not as a small, but as an adult. A sense of adulthood and is manifested in the pursuit of independence, the desire to protect certain aspects of his life from interfering with their parents. The teenager, thinking myself a unique person, at the same time tends outwardly no different from their peers. A typical feature of adolescents is conformity – imitation. The desire to merge with the group, does not stand out, meet security needs. Sometimes teenagers mimic the behavior of a significant person, usually the father.

In case of insufficient criticality teenager, his lack of independence in the judgments of role model can have a negative impact. If parents filed a bad example with regard to alcohol, the adolescent becomes a norm of behavior frequent consumption of alcoholic beverages. Peter Arnell will not settle for partial explanations. Moreover, this example of parents making the treatment of alcoholism is a complex process because it is deeply imprinted in the minds of such behavior as the norm. In the most important thing children do inherit the values of parents. 'Spheres of Influence' parents and peers delineated. Usually transmitted from parents to fundamental aspects of social life. With peers the same advice about 'immediate' issues. However, relations with peers for adolescents are more significant than in adults because it is social isolation from their teenage family genealogy. Adolescence is a period of stormy inner feelings and emotional difficulties. Teenagers are sometimes shy and attach great importance to shortcomings of their appearance and behavior, which leads to a reluctance to meet with some people. Sometimes anxiety paralyzes the social life of a teenager so that he rejects most forms of group activity. According to a survey conducted among adolescents, every 12th to the head came the idea of suicide. Behavioral abnormalities characteristic of almost all adolescents. Characteristics of this age – the sensitivity, mood swings, fear of ridicule, reduced self-esteem. The majority of children over time, this runs by itself, some also need the help of a psychologist. There are trainings on personal growth that will help teenagers to develop healthy self-esteem and its relationship with the outside world. Of course, it is very important remains the preservation of contact between teens and parents, which is achieved by striving for mutual understanding and respect for the feelings and views of each other.

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Monday, October 25th, 2021 News Comments Off on Higher Parents

Ostap Bender

Hello, dear readers! Otmelkali garlands and lights of fireworks New Year's Eve! Otshumeli tinkling of glasses and many-voiced congratulations and wishes of health, kindness, prosperity, love, happiness .. And, perhaps, each of us at least once thought that if all of the wishes fulfilled at least one third! .. That would be healed! WOULD … not for nothing that say the best – the worst enemy of all good. Me about it and wanted to talk to you.

"Alex, how much you need to be happy? "- remember, the classics, the words of Ostap Bender. But the wisest of the question! How often do we ask ourselves everyday life it? Do we know what and how much do we need for happiness? I suppose that many would say – yes, I very clear idea of what parameters is characterized by happiness. Then follow the description. And, as a rule, that of life values, which are not present or not in the quality-quantity as dreams. Family (in best traditions of Hollywood melodramas), flat (in the description will necessarily important area, footage, finishes, furnishings, etc.), business (everything is simple – the number of zeros after the numbers in the "income"), a machine (similar to the description apartments, only the parameters, etc.), health (everything is buggy – I want to be strong, a lot, but it is not clear exactly what and how it should look like), recreation (float realistic colorful and vivid pictures of the brochures travel agencies), etc. And here, add known proverb: "Money is not happiness, but their number," "Happiness – it's when you realize," "Happy hours are not watching," "Happiness must be sufferings …" Just get lost! So How much and what? At all times, in the discourse of the happiness I did not give a thought of rest. It is not clear.

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Saturday, December 3rd, 2011 News Comments Off on Ostap Bender